Sex and more Sex!
Well I understand that Sex should be about the emotional journey and it
should be spiritual... But if your partner just lays there and you are
doing all the work then all the emotional and spiritual stuff just went
out the window!
To have good sex you should have the skills needed. You have to be
imaginative and sometimes a little freaky.... nothing wrong with
that... hehehe! We have needs or wants that we want our partner to
fulfill. If that is fulfilled then the emotional journey is worth
taking.
Sex to me is so much better when its with someone who you truly have
feelings for. It doesn't have to be love. Attraction is also strong.
But if you want sex to be fulfilling and meaningful then find someone
you love. Attraction can just do so much. Attraction is fun but that
can fade easily and the person you were with will eventually just
disappear and you better hope that that person is not a friend because
even your friendship can be destroyed.
Love in other hand will not easily fade away. Because when it is
gone.... it hurts. I know we do not want to feel hurt. But sometimes
the hurt keeps us coming back. Hurt is one of the emotions that keeps
us committed to the people we love and to ourselves. I am not talking
about abuse or any of that horrible stuff. Because if you are in an
abusive relationship you know what the pain is like and you know you
should get out... but some people don't. I won't get into that right
now. But i hope you know the difference. If you do... then I believe
you now have the tools to take this to the next level. Now sex has
become a part of your spiritual journey.
Okey i'm not saying "attraction sex" is bad. I am merely explaining
the differences of the two in my own opinion. I could be wrong but it
doesn't matter. What really matters is what you believe in. What
matters is what you think you deserve. But if your belief takes you to
the wrong path then at least be mature enough to take responsiblity.
Nothing is ever easy..... but at least try to be someone you can be
proud of. peace!!
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thanks for the kind words btw, i think this is the essence of blogging, to really be able to share our thoughts, of course with deep responsibility. peace out to yah!
Thats why having sex and making love are two different thing... some give in to mother nature's doing and some demand more.